M loves animals and is happy to shovel stuff if it means she gets to be with animals. She's gotten several paid opportunities to pet sit. Her dream is to work with pets.
I spend a lot of time trying to help her see that she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to, except everything I tell her to do. She has to do that.
She can be anything and I hope she develops a healthy sense of autonomy. It's OK to say "No, I can't do that." and "No thank you." Unless it's me asking/telling. I love you M!